Samantha's Grandma Susan found three big boxes of books in a long-lost closet she had forgotten about for several years. They are the old-school, hard cover books that Brian had as a kid... probably hundreds of them. Grandma Susan decided each of the kids could pick ten books when they came over. She told us about this a few days ago, and Samantha has been super excited to go to grandma's so she could pick her ten books.
Today was the big day! New/old books for Samantha, Spence, and Natalie. Well, we got home, and the first book Samantha pulled from her bag was a big encyclopedia of insects, with huge color pictures of grasshoppers, katydids, bees, etc. She was thrilled, and had me pause my work to look at several large insects. Next, she showed me her "things that fly" book, all about airplanes and helicopters of different varieties. And then, she started reading aloud to me about woolly mammoths, from her new book about prehistoric animals.
After awhile, she stopped to look over her complete collection of books she had just acquired. "I guess I like nonfiction, Mom," she told me. "Seven out of ten of my books are nonfiction, and only three are fictional story books."
Is this normal six-year-old behavior? If it's not, I'll take it anyway! I love our inquisitive little school girl!
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Friday, October 19, 2012
Road Trip Details -- THE BEGINNING
I know it's already old news, but I HAVE to take time to write about our amazing trip across the country. It truly was a once-in-a-lifetime type of trip. (I hope. ha!)
-- 4500 miles
-- 16 states
-- 14 days
-- 3 kids, age 6, 4, and 2
-- 6 to 10 hours in a car each day
-- fast food and sandwiches for most meals
-- 9 hotel stays
-- 5 nights with friends or family
-- 3 national parks
-- 8 state capitol buildings
What a trip! See, I planned to blog or at least post fb updates as we went along. But then, it seemed like I was just EXHAUSTED by the time we got to our hotel each night. And well... it just didn't happen. So, now you get the less exciting "after" version, in however many installments it takes me to write about this wild and crazy adventure.
Day 1: Leaving Harrison
Saturday, Sept 29
I didn't get a last picture of our empty house the day we left. But Brian did get this funny one of all three kids in a box together, as we were packing up. It was sad to say goodbye to our house, but such a relief to FINALLY get everything packed up and all the last cleaning done. Whew!
We stayed the last two nights with our sweet friends, the Anguses. They let us stay in their basement apartment -- two bedrooms, a living room and a bathroom. Such a nice place to regroup! Thanks to Spencer, sneaking the camera for a quick photo shoot, you get this lovely view of the living room area...
You also get this close-up of Spencer's shorts, as he was hiding under the table, taking pics of the room, sneaky boy!
Tuata Angus and me, as we were heading out. I will miss her and her husband. They had us over for Christmas dinner last year, and always made us feel so welcome in their home, and at church. They're from Australia/New Zealand; I will miss hearing their fun accent.
We stopped at the house one last time, so the kids could see it all emptied out. Then, on to Harrison Library to check out books for our trip. What a clever idea, eh? We checked out several books on CD, plus some "real" books, then mailed them to our friend to return to the library. (Thanks, Lindsay!)
The kids played in the nearby gazebo and park, while Brian and I took turns in the library, picking what we wanted to read...
Samantha, "posing" in front of the war memorial at the park. I will miss our little Harrison town. It really has a charming feel. And it has a Dunkin Donuts. My kids will miss that, too.
We headed over the Tappan Zee Bridge and into New Jersey. Within the first 50 miles, Brian taught Natalie this fun trick. It's called "put your diaper on your head!" Samantha and Spence thought it was hilarious, so of course Natalie did it quite often throughout our trip!
That first day, we had plans of leaving bright and early, making good time, and stopping to see Gettysburg and drive through Hershey, Pennsylvania. Well. We reinstated our family motto that day: Everything Takes Longer. (Not the most inspiring motto, I know. But true to life, and helpful to remember when starting a two-week road trip with kids.)
We did NOT see Gettysburg. It is still on our "next time" list. And our drive through Hershey was short and the chocolate museum was closed. So, we scooted along to Harrisburg, PA, where we stayed in a nice hotel downtown. They were having an atheist convention at the hotel that night. Interesting. Brian took the kids swimming, while I went to get us some dinner somewhere. I got lost, drove through some sketchy neighborhoods in Harrisburg, and learned that my GPS does NOT hunt down "grocery stores" very well. But it did eventually lead me to a Walmart... not the best dinner, but edible.
Back at the hotel that night, I went swimming after the kids were in bed. Some drunk people from the atheist convention were swimming in their undies. ahem. Security people had to come kick them out of the pool, where they proceeded to dress and flirt and swear, right beside the pool. Not the best swim, but I pretty much had to pool to myself after they left.
Harrisburg's capitol, with the green dome. It's right next to a big river, which is a nice setting, we thought...
Day 2: Maryland and West Virginia, flat tires and rain
Sunday, Sept 30 -- Happy Birthday Jenn Hone (we thought of you!)
We didn't know it at the time, but our second day we drove through some of the most beautiful scenery of the entire trip. We passed through the Appalachian Mountains (wow! I actually spelled that right on the first try, pretty impressive, eh?!). Rolling hills, red barns and white farm houses, bright fall colors, etc. It was gorgeous. I snapped a quick pic as we drove. Now I wish we would have stopped for a real pic instead....
It was Sunday, so we went to church at a ward in Cumberland, Maryland. (I wondered if that's where the Cumberland Gap is, but Brian said he didn't think it was. Anyone know??) The kids were restless, and we still had a lot of driving to go, so we hurried off. But then... bad news for us. We had a nail in a tire. We pumped it up and tried to drive on, thinking it would be hard to get it fixed on Sunday. But it went flat again quickly. So we had to stop and buy new tires... FOUR of them, since our tread was fairly low. Bummer.
Yes, I took a picture, while we waited to get our tires changed...
And then, I took several pics of this cutie, while I changed her diaper and blew raspberries on her tummy in the change room at the tire place. (Did I mention it was quite a wait??)
I think that was probably the least desirable day of our trip. During church, one of the speakers mentioned how grateful they were to have the blessing of spending eternity with their family. I silently added to myself, "eternity... but hopefully NOT in a minivan!"
In the evening, as we tried to make up time after the tire incident, our kids were out of control, screaming and fighting and whining like wild banchees in our back seat. I told Brian, "I think you can just drop me off at the next airport, and I'll meet you and the kids at home when you get there in a few weeks. Hey, I'll even take Nat with me, since she isn't two for a few more days." I was serious. We eventually pulled over, and Brian and I stood outside the car for a full five minutes, while our kids continued to scream and fight and cry in the car. They would open the door occasionally, but we made them close it again until they were ALL DONE. That was probably the lowest moment -- for everyone. See why I was thinking "eternity -- NOT in a minivan?"
We spent the night in Charleston, West Virginia. Nice place, even in the rain.
Day 3: West Virginia, Kentucky and Tennessee
Monday, October 1 -- Happy October! (Brian 'got' me.)
We drove by the capitol building first thing in the morning, before we left Charleston. It was also a nice city, built between two rivers, I think.
I wanted to get a picture of the "Welcome to Kentucky" sign, because Brian had never been to Kentucky. But I missed. So I got this lousy shot of a water tower, and a semi...
Lots of driving meant lots of "thinking about what to do" for our kids in the back seat. Natalie liked taking off her clothes. Not sure why she does this, but she is quite skilled at removing her shirt while in her car seat...
We made it to the Kentucky capitol building, in Frankfort. (Aside, Frankfort is tiny, and the capitol building may be its only claim to fame, in case you wondered.) I already posted a few pics from the inside, but here are a couple more. Check out that massive set of stairs, and that little Spencer head at the very bottom...
And here's the champ, at the top of the stairs. I'm sure he would have hummed the Rocky theme music, if he knew Rocky, eh?
-- 4500 miles
-- 16 states
-- 14 days
-- 3 kids, age 6, 4, and 2
-- 6 to 10 hours in a car each day
-- fast food and sandwiches for most meals
-- 9 hotel stays
-- 5 nights with friends or family
-- 3 national parks
-- 8 state capitol buildings
What a trip! See, I planned to blog or at least post fb updates as we went along. But then, it seemed like I was just EXHAUSTED by the time we got to our hotel each night. And well... it just didn't happen. So, now you get the less exciting "after" version, in however many installments it takes me to write about this wild and crazy adventure.
Day 1: Leaving Harrison
Saturday, Sept 29
I didn't get a last picture of our empty house the day we left. But Brian did get this funny one of all three kids in a box together, as we were packing up. It was sad to say goodbye to our house, but such a relief to FINALLY get everything packed up and all the last cleaning done. Whew!
We stayed the last two nights with our sweet friends, the Anguses. They let us stay in their basement apartment -- two bedrooms, a living room and a bathroom. Such a nice place to regroup! Thanks to Spencer, sneaking the camera for a quick photo shoot, you get this lovely view of the living room area...
You also get this close-up of Spencer's shorts, as he was hiding under the table, taking pics of the room, sneaky boy!
Tuata Angus and me, as we were heading out. I will miss her and her husband. They had us over for Christmas dinner last year, and always made us feel so welcome in their home, and at church. They're from Australia/New Zealand; I will miss hearing their fun accent.
We stopped at the house one last time, so the kids could see it all emptied out. Then, on to Harrison Library to check out books for our trip. What a clever idea, eh? We checked out several books on CD, plus some "real" books, then mailed them to our friend to return to the library. (Thanks, Lindsay!)
The kids played in the nearby gazebo and park, while Brian and I took turns in the library, picking what we wanted to read...
Samantha, "posing" in front of the war memorial at the park. I will miss our little Harrison town. It really has a charming feel. And it has a Dunkin Donuts. My kids will miss that, too.
We headed over the Tappan Zee Bridge and into New Jersey. Within the first 50 miles, Brian taught Natalie this fun trick. It's called "put your diaper on your head!" Samantha and Spence thought it was hilarious, so of course Natalie did it quite often throughout our trip!
That first day, we had plans of leaving bright and early, making good time, and stopping to see Gettysburg and drive through Hershey, Pennsylvania. Well. We reinstated our family motto that day: Everything Takes Longer. (Not the most inspiring motto, I know. But true to life, and helpful to remember when starting a two-week road trip with kids.)
We did NOT see Gettysburg. It is still on our "next time" list. And our drive through Hershey was short and the chocolate museum was closed. So, we scooted along to Harrisburg, PA, where we stayed in a nice hotel downtown. They were having an atheist convention at the hotel that night. Interesting. Brian took the kids swimming, while I went to get us some dinner somewhere. I got lost, drove through some sketchy neighborhoods in Harrisburg, and learned that my GPS does NOT hunt down "grocery stores" very well. But it did eventually lead me to a Walmart... not the best dinner, but edible.
Back at the hotel that night, I went swimming after the kids were in bed. Some drunk people from the atheist convention were swimming in their undies. ahem. Security people had to come kick them out of the pool, where they proceeded to dress and flirt and swear, right beside the pool. Not the best swim, but I pretty much had to pool to myself after they left.
Harrisburg's capitol, with the green dome. It's right next to a big river, which is a nice setting, we thought...
Day 2: Maryland and West Virginia, flat tires and rain
Sunday, Sept 30 -- Happy Birthday Jenn Hone (we thought of you!)
We didn't know it at the time, but our second day we drove through some of the most beautiful scenery of the entire trip. We passed through the Appalachian Mountains (wow! I actually spelled that right on the first try, pretty impressive, eh?!). Rolling hills, red barns and white farm houses, bright fall colors, etc. It was gorgeous. I snapped a quick pic as we drove. Now I wish we would have stopped for a real pic instead....
It was Sunday, so we went to church at a ward in Cumberland, Maryland. (I wondered if that's where the Cumberland Gap is, but Brian said he didn't think it was. Anyone know??) The kids were restless, and we still had a lot of driving to go, so we hurried off. But then... bad news for us. We had a nail in a tire. We pumped it up and tried to drive on, thinking it would be hard to get it fixed on Sunday. But it went flat again quickly. So we had to stop and buy new tires... FOUR of them, since our tread was fairly low. Bummer.
Yes, I took a picture, while we waited to get our tires changed...
And then, I took several pics of this cutie, while I changed her diaper and blew raspberries on her tummy in the change room at the tire place. (Did I mention it was quite a wait??)
I think that was probably the least desirable day of our trip. During church, one of the speakers mentioned how grateful they were to have the blessing of spending eternity with their family. I silently added to myself, "eternity... but hopefully NOT in a minivan!"
In the evening, as we tried to make up time after the tire incident, our kids were out of control, screaming and fighting and whining like wild banchees in our back seat. I told Brian, "I think you can just drop me off at the next airport, and I'll meet you and the kids at home when you get there in a few weeks. Hey, I'll even take Nat with me, since she isn't two for a few more days." I was serious. We eventually pulled over, and Brian and I stood outside the car for a full five minutes, while our kids continued to scream and fight and cry in the car. They would open the door occasionally, but we made them close it again until they were ALL DONE. That was probably the lowest moment -- for everyone. See why I was thinking "eternity -- NOT in a minivan?"
We spent the night in Charleston, West Virginia. Nice place, even in the rain.
Day 3: West Virginia, Kentucky and Tennessee
Monday, October 1 -- Happy October! (Brian 'got' me.)
We drove by the capitol building first thing in the morning, before we left Charleston. It was also a nice city, built between two rivers, I think.
I wanted to get a picture of the "Welcome to Kentucky" sign, because Brian had never been to Kentucky. But I missed. So I got this lousy shot of a water tower, and a semi...
Lots of driving meant lots of "thinking about what to do" for our kids in the back seat. Natalie liked taking off her clothes. Not sure why she does this, but she is quite skilled at removing her shirt while in her car seat...
We made it to the Kentucky capitol building, in Frankfort. (Aside, Frankfort is tiny, and the capitol building may be its only claim to fame, in case you wondered.) I already posted a few pics from the inside, but here are a couple more. Check out that massive set of stairs, and that little Spencer head at the very bottom...
And here's the champ, at the top of the stairs. I'm sure he would have hummed the Rocky theme music, if he knew Rocky, eh?
Next stop, Nashville, Tennessee. We had our best swimming pool on the trip that night. I wish I would have taken pictures of it, it was that nice. There was a big hot tub, too. And we had the place all to ourselves, for over an hour. Good times!
Stay tuned for more. I promise it's coming, even though there's so much unpacking still to do around here! I'll be back!
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Today
Here's what I did today:
-- Enrolled Samantha in her new school, met her teacher, and sniffled away as I left her in the care of strangers, again. She was fine, of course, and had a great first day at her new school.
-- Found a preschool for Spencer, hooray!! He starts tomorrow, and he thinks it is super cool that his teacher's last name is McDonald, just like the restaurant.
-- Put bunk beds together, twice! (First the wrong way, and again the right way).
-- Emptied, moved, and refilled three dressers with all the kids' clothes. Ended up with four bags of giveaway clothes, whew!
-- Moved out two beds from Samantha's room, then assembled the queen bed in her room.
-- Had help from Dalana ( bless her!) and Brian for lots of this stuff.
-- Unpacked three big kitchen boxes of dishes and wares.
-- Found the salt, finally. (Turns out three days is a loooong time without a salt shaker!)
-- Found, washed and put on all the bedding for those three beds.
-- Unpacked all the kids' suitcases from the trip, into their dressers and closets, finally.
-- Unloaded two big suitcases of my clothes into the closet.
-- Did three loads of laundry.
-- Cooked and cleared dinner and tidied the kitchen to the point where it actually looks like civilized, organized people live here.
Whew!! No wonder I don't really feel like blogging tonight. :)
All this, after spending the day yesterday whimpering around the house all day with a rib in my upper back out of place. Ouch!! Chiropractor popped it back in late in the afternoon ... Must have worked, eh?
More to come, soon. Promise. But tonight, I'm off to bed!
-- Enrolled Samantha in her new school, met her teacher, and sniffled away as I left her in the care of strangers, again. She was fine, of course, and had a great first day at her new school.
-- Found a preschool for Spencer, hooray!! He starts tomorrow, and he thinks it is super cool that his teacher's last name is McDonald, just like the restaurant.
-- Put bunk beds together, twice! (First the wrong way, and again the right way).
-- Emptied, moved, and refilled three dressers with all the kids' clothes. Ended up with four bags of giveaway clothes, whew!
-- Moved out two beds from Samantha's room, then assembled the queen bed in her room.
-- Had help from Dalana ( bless her!) and Brian for lots of this stuff.
-- Unpacked three big kitchen boxes of dishes and wares.
-- Found the salt, finally. (Turns out three days is a loooong time without a salt shaker!)
-- Found, washed and put on all the bedding for those three beds.
-- Unpacked all the kids' suitcases from the trip, into their dressers and closets, finally.
-- Unloaded two big suitcases of my clothes into the closet.
-- Did three loads of laundry.
-- Cooked and cleared dinner and tidied the kitchen to the point where it actually looks like civilized, organized people live here.
Whew!! No wonder I don't really feel like blogging tonight. :)
All this, after spending the day yesterday whimpering around the house all day with a rib in my upper back out of place. Ouch!! Chiropractor popped it back in late in the afternoon ... Must have worked, eh?
More to come, soon. Promise. But tonight, I'm off to bed!
Sunday, October 07, 2012
Road Trip -- Capitols Tour
Hello from the road! We have been in our minivan, travelling for NINE days now! We've put more than 3000 miles on our little van. Fun times. We've decided to call this our "Capitols Tour," since, it turns out, we've been to LOTS of capitol buildings. We didn't really plan it, but well...
Here's Harrisburg, Pennsylvania's capitol building, our first overnight stop. Kinda hard to tell, but the dome on top is green, and Spencer loved it because of that...
Next stop, Charleston, West Virginia. Nice, classic...
Frankfort, Kentucky.First time in Kentucky for Brian and the kids.
We actually had time to go inside the Kentucky capitol. It was gorgeous....
In the rotunda, there's a huge statue of Lincoln. The front desk lady told us to be sure and touch Lincoln's toe, because it's good luck. Even Nattie wanted in on the lucky charm...
Brian was trying to "educate" the kids a little bit, as we walked through the different rooms. When we were looking at Lincoln, Brian asked Spencer, "Do you know who that statue is?" With no hesitation, Spencer said, "Yes. It's Joseph Smith." ;)
On to Nashville. We had planned to go inside this one, too. But it was closed for renovations...
Here's another pic, from the front angle. Nashville's capitol sits up really high on a hill overlooking the city. It was a good, long walk for the kids to stretch their legs...
Not a capitol, but also in Nashville is this beautiful piece of architecture. The Parthenon! Yes, it's an exact replica of the really old, famous one in Greece. Kinda cool, eh?
We had to skip Alabama's and Mississippi's, sadly. Montgomery and Jackson were each a couple hours' travel in the wrong direction. And we had a tight schedule, trying to make it to New Orleans for dinner. So, we'll save those two for some other trip.
On to Louisiana. The very enthusiastic desk man at the museum across the street (where we stopped to use the bathroom) proudly told us Louisiana has the TALLEST capitol in the country, 27 floors. Of course, with that kind of info, we HAD to go inside and ride to the top, right??
Views of the mighty Mississippi from the top of the Louisiana capitol.
Views of my cuties, on top...
City of Baton Rouge, looking down. Nice garden around the capitol, eh?
We also stopped in Austin, Texas. Their capitol is quite large and impressive. But they've planted so many trees up close around it, we really couldn't get a good pic of the outside...
We went inside for a few minutes. The rotunda, looking up...
Natalie, looking up... hee hee. She's so cute!
Oklahoma City's was closed when we drove by. But it looked nice...
Only, they had these huge replicas of oil derricks put up all around in the front lawn of the capitol -- two or three of them. Kinda weird and tacky looking. Maybe they're not for show, but they're really drilling for oil in the front lawn of the capitol??
And here we are, in Santa Fe, at the last scheduled capitol stop on our trip. (Well, unless you count Salt Lake and Boise, I suppose. But we've been to those, so we don't really count them.) Santa Fe's capitol is the most unassuming building we've seen. We couldn't really even FIND it for ten minutes, WITH a map! But here it is...
Kinda smallish, and plain, huh? Oh well. Maybe they've never SEEN Louisiana's, so they don't know what they're missing??
Anyway, that ends our Capitols Tour. I know it's kinda weird to put up a whole bunch of pics of all these capitol buildings. I have lots more trip details to share, and I'm working on another post about the trip. But for now, I thought I'd just put all these together here, because I think it's fun! And honestly, I LOVE to see capitol buildings. I've wanted to visit ALL the 50 states' capitols since I was a little girl... ever since I first got to see the capitol building of Idaho, in Boise. Plus, Brian likes capitols, and our kids LOVE capitol buildings. They really do! So... it's been fun to do, gives us something to look forward to, in many of the cities we've passed through.
Next post, I hope I'll have time to give more of the details of the trip. I'm sure you're all dying to know what it's like to be in the car alllll together, crammed full of stuff, driving, driving, driving along, for weeks on end! Let the good times roll!!
Sunday, September 30, 2012
What Moving Looks Like
In case any of you have forgotten what moving is like,
In case you've started to romanticize the ordeal in your minds,
In case it's been too long since you last went through a move yourself..
I thought I'd share a few of the pics I took as we were in-process, as well as some last details of our move...
The kids, eating at our make-shift table, on paper plates, because someone bought our table and chairs right before dinner. (Zoom in and check out how dirty Nat's face is!! Poor neglected little thing.)
Samantha, wondering why I want to take pictures of this stuff, anyway?
The kitchen counters. They looked like this for a full week straight, as we were sorting and packing and looking for stuff in that huge pile of everything that used to be in our cupboards!
Our staging area, in the LR. We moved out the bookcase into the hallway, which meant a tight squeeze in the hall for a few days, but gave us a good central location to stack boxes. This was just the beginning, and I couldn't find the camera by the end!
Boxes, boxes, and more boxes... we were buried in packing paper and walking on tape for days.
Only one of MANY pics of items we had to list on craigslist to sell.
Sadly, this little black beauty never sold. We had several inquiries at first, one guy came and sat on it and said no thanks. Then, nothing. We dropped the price, then dropped it again, and again, and again. Then finally put it on the street in front of our house (along with MANY other useful items -- I LOVE that about NY... you put your goods on the street and other people walk by and "shop" for free. fyi --I will not admit to picking up a mattress off the street in Boston in my single days, in case you wondered. ewww.) Anyway, once it was FREE, it sat there for all of two seconds, before our next door neighbors claimed it. ha!!
Well, so it's over. And it feels like a relief, to be done with all the yucky cleaning and sorting and boxing and moving. At the same time, I admit I have a very sad, heavy feeling in my heart. I loved our little life in New York (except for Brian's rough schedule, of course), and will miss it all so much. I walked through our empty, echo-y house, feeling so lonely, missing our things that made the place home. I wish I would have taken some "after" pictures, but I didn't have my camera with me that last night.
Brian and I stayed and cleaned and packed until 1:30 a.m. one night, then again the next night we were there until after midnight, finishing the cleaning (while kind friends watched our children for us, all week long!). It was exhausting. You have all been through it, I'm sure... You look around and think, there must be only three or four more boxes left to pack. So you pack three or four more, and still there are three or four MORE to pack, and then another three or four. And you just don't know where to put those last rugs or books or decorations, but they're good things so you don't want to leave them behind... ah! And then the cleaning... checking each room again and again, to make sure it's spic and span. Finding Nattie drawings all over the walls, even when you thought you got them all. Oh my. On it goes.
And on it went, for us. The last thing I did was mop the kitchen floor. It's white tile, and gets sooo gummy and yucky sometimes. But when it's clean, that place really does look like a nice place.
Goodbye, nice place.
Goodbye, nice friends.
Goodbye, nice life in pretty, foliage-covered New York.
We're on our way now. Two days on the road, already. (Sleeping in a hotel in West Virginia tonight; we've opted for the Southern route.)
I think it was Helen Keller, or someone else really inspiring, who said, "If you keep your face to the sunshine, you do not see the shadows." (Maybe it wasn't Helen, since she didn't really see, huh?) Anyway, I'm sad to go, for sure. But I'm trying to keep my face and my thoughts focused on the sunshine, and remember that we have a good life waiting for us in Idaho... Good friends, wonderful family, and a home with carpet and a garage and a king-size bed. Lots to look forward to... Lots of sunshine ahead for us, I hope!
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Sleeping Situation
Okay, all you faithful blog readers of mine. I need your help with something that's literally keeping me awake at night (as in, I'm up at 4:30 a.m. writing this... or maybe it's just my yucky head cold??) I'm afraid this is something that may continue to keep me awake at night as I move into our new house where we used to live. The great dilemma is, the sleeping arrangements for our children. I seriously cannot figure this out, and it's driving me crazy!!
So... help. We Bishops are moving back into our house in Idaho that has four good sized bedrooms, on a split floor plan -- two bedrooms are next to each other, behind the kitchen/dining room area. The other two -- including the master -- are far far away, on the other end of the house, behind the living room. This split floor plan bothered me when we lived there before, because we had Samantha and Spencer in the rooms behind the kitchen, which seemed very far away from our master bedroom. Natalie was in the room across from us, but it was a "temporary" arrangement for her, so she was sharing with exercise equipment and a desk in what we liked to call our hobby room.
Now, as we return to this bedroom arrangement, we have some new developments in our children...
-- a much older Natalie, who is climbing out of her crib every day.
-- a scared Spencer who often wakes up in the night and wants to sleep in our room.
-- a strong resistance to letting kids sleep in our room often. (Call us mean, it's just something that DOES NOT work for us.)
-- a Samantha who sleeps fairly well, but doesn't like sleeping alone anymore, after sharing with Spence all this time.
I've tried to figure out how to arrange their bedrooms, who should sleep with whom, etc. And I am lost! Here are some options I've considered:
First, I'll refer to the various room options as follows: the room Samantha used to sleep in, behind the kitchen, will be the pink room. Spencer's room behind the kitchen will be the blue room. And the other room, close to the master, will be called the hobby room.
Option 1: Samantha in the pink room, by herself where she used to be. Spencer and Natalie in the blue room, sharing a queen bed (which would double as a guest bed when we have visitors). Or, we could put bunk beds in Spencer and Natalie's room and sleep them on the bunks, separated. But then what do we do with our rare guests? and with our queen bed?
Option 2: Samantha and Natalie in the pink room, behind the kitchen far from us. Spencer in the room across from us in the hobby room, and move all the "hobby" stuff to the blue room. With this option, I worry Spence will still get up in the night, and being alone will be too scary, and being so close to us might be more of an enabler for him to come sleep in our room, instead of a comfort to him.
Option 3: Spencer and Natalie in the hobby room in bunk beds, Samantha across the house in the pink room, and all the hobby stuff moved over into the blue room. But I worry Samantha will start getting scared, sleeping all by herself over there?
Option 4: Samantha and Spencer in bunk beds in the blue room, Natalie in the pink room, in a toddler bed with the queen bed for guests. For some reason, this arrangement seems like Samantha gets the shaft, though it's what they've been used to here. I just picture Samantha needing her own "space" more, now that she's older, in school, etc. Plus, I painted the cutest blue and yellow stripes on the wall in that blue room. And I feel like I'd want to change it, if they were sharing. Trivial, I know. But still...
Option 4: I know it sounds ridiculous -- in a house with four bedrooms-- but I've seriously considered sleeping them all in the same room, right across the hall from us in the hobby room. Bunk beds for Sam and Spence, and a toddler bed for Nat. Although, she would have to adjust to that. Right now, when they all sleep in the same room, Nattie thinks it's a big party. (We just ended the weeklong "party" they had while my parents were here last week. She finally slept in this a.m. until NINE, after waking btwn 6:30 and 7 for the whole week they were sharing!) hmm... But with that option, we'd have space for a real guest bedroom (the pink room), and a real hobby room.
Oh the trivial, tedious things that keep me awake at night. But see, if I don't figure this out before we move, well... Anyway, I welcome any thoughts anyone has about this. In fact, if you're reading this on your "smart" phones, people, please make a "smart" note to yourself to go to your real computer and type out a comment about this one for me so I can figure out what I should do!
For now, I think the answer is to go back to bed and hope I can go back to sleep! G'nite!
So... help. We Bishops are moving back into our house in Idaho that has four good sized bedrooms, on a split floor plan -- two bedrooms are next to each other, behind the kitchen/dining room area. The other two -- including the master -- are far far away, on the other end of the house, behind the living room. This split floor plan bothered me when we lived there before, because we had Samantha and Spencer in the rooms behind the kitchen, which seemed very far away from our master bedroom. Natalie was in the room across from us, but it was a "temporary" arrangement for her, so she was sharing with exercise equipment and a desk in what we liked to call our hobby room.
Now, as we return to this bedroom arrangement, we have some new developments in our children...
-- a much older Natalie, who is climbing out of her crib every day.
-- a scared Spencer who often wakes up in the night and wants to sleep in our room.
-- a strong resistance to letting kids sleep in our room often. (Call us mean, it's just something that DOES NOT work for us.)
-- a Samantha who sleeps fairly well, but doesn't like sleeping alone anymore, after sharing with Spence all this time.
I've tried to figure out how to arrange their bedrooms, who should sleep with whom, etc. And I am lost! Here are some options I've considered:
First, I'll refer to the various room options as follows: the room Samantha used to sleep in, behind the kitchen, will be the pink room. Spencer's room behind the kitchen will be the blue room. And the other room, close to the master, will be called the hobby room.
Option 1: Samantha in the pink room, by herself where she used to be. Spencer and Natalie in the blue room, sharing a queen bed (which would double as a guest bed when we have visitors). Or, we could put bunk beds in Spencer and Natalie's room and sleep them on the bunks, separated. But then what do we do with our rare guests? and with our queen bed?
Option 2: Samantha and Natalie in the pink room, behind the kitchen far from us. Spencer in the room across from us in the hobby room, and move all the "hobby" stuff to the blue room. With this option, I worry Spence will still get up in the night, and being alone will be too scary, and being so close to us might be more of an enabler for him to come sleep in our room, instead of a comfort to him.
Option 3: Spencer and Natalie in the hobby room in bunk beds, Samantha across the house in the pink room, and all the hobby stuff moved over into the blue room. But I worry Samantha will start getting scared, sleeping all by herself over there?
Option 4: Samantha and Spencer in bunk beds in the blue room, Natalie in the pink room, in a toddler bed with the queen bed for guests. For some reason, this arrangement seems like Samantha gets the shaft, though it's what they've been used to here. I just picture Samantha needing her own "space" more, now that she's older, in school, etc. Plus, I painted the cutest blue and yellow stripes on the wall in that blue room. And I feel like I'd want to change it, if they were sharing. Trivial, I know. But still...
Option 4: I know it sounds ridiculous -- in a house with four bedrooms-- but I've seriously considered sleeping them all in the same room, right across the hall from us in the hobby room. Bunk beds for Sam and Spence, and a toddler bed for Nat. Although, she would have to adjust to that. Right now, when they all sleep in the same room, Nattie thinks it's a big party. (We just ended the weeklong "party" they had while my parents were here last week. She finally slept in this a.m. until NINE, after waking btwn 6:30 and 7 for the whole week they were sharing!) hmm... But with that option, we'd have space for a real guest bedroom (the pink room), and a real hobby room.
Oh the trivial, tedious things that keep me awake at night. But see, if I don't figure this out before we move, well... Anyway, I welcome any thoughts anyone has about this. In fact, if you're reading this on your "smart" phones, people, please make a "smart" note to yourself to go to your real computer and type out a comment about this one for me so I can figure out what I should do!
For now, I think the answer is to go back to bed and hope I can go back to sleep! G'nite!
Saturday, September 22, 2012
Update
It is time to write some more, before there is no time to write. But truth be told, I am not really in a writing mood. I should have written two nights ago when I was in the mood. But well...
Six days left, and counting. We are officially in the packing and dejunking phase of this move. The yucky phase where I'd really like to fast-forward a week and be already gone. Today we packed seven or eight boxes, sold $80 worth of stuff on craigslist, and took long naps because both Brian and I seem to be catching something. Our poor children are underfoot, wishing we could seize the last moments and do something FUN this weekend instead of just packing and organizing. Don't feel too sorry for them... we've spent A LOT of time playing lately, and we'll be playing some more on our way home. So they'll have their time soon enough.
Last week my parents came for one last visit. It was so much fun to have them here. They came for a visit shortly after we moved in, and now again as we're on our way out. I want to post pics from their trip, so I'll save that update for later.
For now, just thought I'd put up a short shout-out and say, hey! we're still here! For six more days. Then we'll be on our two-week tour across the country. Oh, how lovely will that be?! We were first thinking of going through Montreal and Michigan and North Dakota -- the northern route. But I think we've changed our minds... We're now thinking of taking the southern route -- by way of Mississippi and the Grand Canyon. Makes sense, right? You think I'm joking about this plan, I'm sure. I even sometimes think we should be joking. But we're not. We decided to put some more states on our maps of "where we've been" -- Alabama and Mississippi for me, plus Arkansas, Oklahoma, Kentucky and Tennessee for Brian, and Texas and New Mexico for the kids. Gotta get those lower 48 covered!! Wish us luck.
The next few days will consist of lots of packing tape, cardboard, and craigslisting... and bored, television-watching children. Oh the joys!!
Six days left, and counting. We are officially in the packing and dejunking phase of this move. The yucky phase where I'd really like to fast-forward a week and be already gone. Today we packed seven or eight boxes, sold $80 worth of stuff on craigslist, and took long naps because both Brian and I seem to be catching something. Our poor children are underfoot, wishing we could seize the last moments and do something FUN this weekend instead of just packing and organizing. Don't feel too sorry for them... we've spent A LOT of time playing lately, and we'll be playing some more on our way home. So they'll have their time soon enough.
Last week my parents came for one last visit. It was so much fun to have them here. They came for a visit shortly after we moved in, and now again as we're on our way out. I want to post pics from their trip, so I'll save that update for later.
For now, just thought I'd put up a short shout-out and say, hey! we're still here! For six more days. Then we'll be on our two-week tour across the country. Oh, how lovely will that be?! We were first thinking of going through Montreal and Michigan and North Dakota -- the northern route. But I think we've changed our minds... We're now thinking of taking the southern route -- by way of Mississippi and the Grand Canyon. Makes sense, right? You think I'm joking about this plan, I'm sure. I even sometimes think we should be joking. But we're not. We decided to put some more states on our maps of "where we've been" -- Alabama and Mississippi for me, plus Arkansas, Oklahoma, Kentucky and Tennessee for Brian, and Texas and New Mexico for the kids. Gotta get those lower 48 covered!! Wish us luck.
The next few days will consist of lots of packing tape, cardboard, and craigslisting... and bored, television-watching children. Oh the joys!!
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Lovely Labor Day
Anyone else have a really fun Labor Day weekend? We sure did! We went to a little lake house with a group of friends and all our kids... eight little kids running wild all weekend. We tried to get them to pose for a picture, but this is the most "posing" we could get...
We went to a county fair together. Saw a tractor pull. Look how excited we all are, waiting for the tractor pull to begin. Such excitement!!
It was my first tractor pull, even though I grew up with the Eastern Idaho State Fair IN my hometown, and they had tractor pulls every single year. Who knew they were so loud?! And so smokey!!?
Spencer did not like the tractor pull. He wanted to go get "something yummy" and "ride a ride."Nattie wasn't sure what to think. But she sure liked being free from the stroller. She traded seats on those bleachers 50 times in 20 minutes.
So, we didn't stay too long, but let our kids ride their ride. Heaven...
Nat had to watch from the stroller...
Truth be told, instead of watching the kids in the swings, Natalie and I spent more time watching this sickening ride. It looked sooo crazy! We did NOT ride it.
The day of the fair we also put kids to bed and stayed up super late playing games together. Good times. Then, on Sunday, we went to church at a tiny little branch from our LDS church. It was such a sweet experience, to join with saints and feel so comfortable and at home in the gospel, no matter where we go.
We didn't get any pictures at the lake and pool, but we spent a fair amount of time swimming and relaxing at our secluded beach area. The kids especially loved the pool.
We also went apple picking. Soooo delicious! The kids dug right in...
The whole gang, trooping back with our "picks"...
And, our little straggler, who just couldn't leave the orchard...
Lounging with friends, eating cider donuts...
Oh, yes, it was a super fun weekend. Perfect weather, lovely scenic surroundings, delicious food, and good friends.
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Okay, so I can't just leave it at that. You have to have the extra little back story here...
Ten years ago, on Labor Day weekend 2002, a group of young single friends, myself and Brian included, got together and rented the perfect lake house for the weekend. My friend Alicia scouted out the most secluded little waterfront house, and then invited enough people to join that we only had to pay $40 apiece for three days of heaven. What a steal!! It was absolutely lovely. A deck, a dock, a row boat, and a lake that was the perfect temperature -- even in the middle of the night. :)
Only down side... Brian and I broke up... For the second time. Right out there on the water on that beautiful little lake, in a row boat, in a light, misty rain. It was perhaps one of the most tragically romantic moments of my life. I cried, he didn't. End of Round Two. Funny thing is, when Brian and I talk about that trip, we both remember it as a really fun, wonderful trip, despite the emotional upheaval we were both experiencing the entire time we were there together. We both remember listening to Norah Jones for the first time -- her first CD was brand new then. We both remember the amazing food, the late night monopoly game, and all the fun times with friends. And oh that beautiful Lake Horace. It really was a lovely weekend.
Maybe we were both just trying hard to focus on the positive? Or maybe we just had a feeling that it would all work itself out in the end? Or well... who knows?! But after our most recent trip, ten years later, three kids in tow... Well, I know it's cliche, but I have to say, "All's well that ends well!!" I like our happy ending. Happy Labor Day!!
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